New rescue dog is super shy - toy recommendations to help him open up?

Started by OP â€ĸ 1/15/2026 02:00 PM

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OP 1/15/2026 02:00 PM
#1
Hey everyone, just adopted a 2-year-old rescue mutt (maybe lab/shepherd mix?) named Buddy. He's been hiding under the couch since we brought him home yesterday, won't take treats from my hand, and seems scared of everything. I bought some basic tennis balls and a rope toy, but he won't even sniff them. Any advice on toys that might help a super shy dog feel more comfortable? I'm worried he'll never come out of his shell :(
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TerrierTim764
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1/15/2026 04:03 PM
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First off, THANK YOU for rescuing! It takes time - my terrier mix hid for 3 days when we got her. For toys, start with something quiet and non-threatening. Kongs stuffed with peanut butter (xylitol-free!) worked wonders - she'd lick it while still hiding. Also try a soft plush toy without squeakers - the noise might scare him. Just leave toys near his hiding spot without forcing interaction. He'll come around!
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PugPatty680
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1/15/2026 03:16 PM
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Not a dog expert but as a reptile person - think about environmental enrichment. Maybe a puzzle toy you can put treats in that he can investigate when alone? My bearded dragon took weeks to adjust. Also, are you sure he's a dog? Just kidding! But seriously, give him space. Some of my snakes won't eat for weeks in new homes. Patience is key with all animals.
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DobermanDan130
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1/15/2026 07:24 PM
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Ugh dogs are so needy. My cats would never act like this. But if you insist on this dog thing - try cat toys. Seriously. The wand toys with feathers let you interact from a distance without invading his space. My doberman mix (RIP) loved chasing those when he was anxious. Also, make sure the toys aren't too bright or weird looking. Basic colors only.
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TerrierTim764
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1/15/2026 06:16 PM
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Dan's wand toy idea is actually good! Interactive toys where YOU control the distance could help build trust. Also seconding the puzzle feeders - Outward Hound makes great ones. Buddy might feel safer 'working' for food when you're not right there. And remember the 3-3-3 rule for rescues: 3 days to decompress, 3 weeks to learn routine, 3 months to feel at home. You're doing great!
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